Bro. James F. Wiegand, SDB (1933-2024)
Bro. Jim in 2006 |
Jim Wiegand was born on Sept.
21, 1933, in Freeport, Ill., the son of Aloysius and Faye Sunderland Wiegand. His father was a railroad conductor. The family also included Jim’s younger sister
Martha.
Jim became a member of Christ’s
family on Nov. 12, 1933, baptized at Freeport’s St. Joseph’s Church. He was also confirmed there in 1944.
In his youth Jim was a fervent
sports fan, rooting always for the Chicago White Sox—“yesterday, today, and
tomorrow”—and for the Chicago Bulls after their founding in 1966. He starred in high school in basketball and
baseball and was the starting tight end in football. He even got a tryout with the Chicago Cubs
(who evidently did not sign him). As a
teen, he decided that he wanted to become a coach.
Bro. Jim ca. 1960 |
So Jim came to the Salesians at
Don Bosco Tech in Paterson, N.J., as an aspirant on Jan. 29, 1953. From his first encounter with the Salesians, he
found what he described as “a form of spirituality which I had not witnessed
before. The Salesians were more often in the field working, than in the chapel
praying. When I inquired about this, I
was told, ‘Our Founder, Don Bosco, believed that work can be prayer!’ And I
noticed they went about doing their work with great cheerfulness.” At DBT he found a solid family spirit among
the brothers and other staff and was particularly guided by Fr. Joseph Perozzi,
Bro. Mike Frazette, and the athletic director, Bill Kehoe, whom he regarded as
his mentor in coaching.
The Kehoes, in fact, remained
lifelong friends. Bill’s daughter Jude
Ann Coté
testifies: “Bro. Jim truly walked in Don
Bosco’s shadow using reason, religion, and kindness with his boys.” She adds:
Like Don Bosco, who used his juggling/gymnastic skills to attract and meet his boys where they were, Bro. Jim used the blessings of his athletic/coaching abilities. He saw Don Bosco as his model and sought opportunities to apply his system of reason, religion, and kindness to greet boys wherever they were (even a morning greeting in the cafeteria) with a desire to develop in them good character to bring into the world. Clothed in team gear or perfecting the physics behind shooting, Bro. Jim held fast to returning to the importance of the lesson of “the spirit vs. the ego,” successfully using every opportunity to leave his message with us to pass on now as confreres, teachers, coaches, friends, and parents.
DBT's 1960 baseball team Bill Kehoe at left, Bro. Jim at right |
Jim was admitted to St. Joseph’s Novitiate in Newton in September 1953 and, a year later, made his first religious profession at Newton on Sept. 8, 1954. He made perpetual profession at Newton on Sept. 3, 1960.
Jim continued studies at Don
Bosco College in Newton and earned a B.A. in humanities in 1957. At the same time, he had begun practical
training at Don Bosco in Paterson, teaching physical education and coaching
basketball and baseball. He remained at
DBT for 7 years and also served at summer camps at Camp Savio in West Milford,
N.J., and Camp Don Bosco in East Barrington, N.H., for 6 years. He always regarded his 7 years at DBT as
“golden years.”
From DBT's 1958 yearbook l-r: Bro. Jim, Bill Kehoe, Fr. Paul Aronica, Bro. Anthony Wolfe, Bro. Bill Burns |
Transferred to Salesian High School in New Rochelle, N.Y., in 1961, he taught phys ed and coached basketball there until 1980 and also was campmaster during the summers. From 1974 to 1980 he was on the house council, and from 1970 to 1980 was a member of the province’s coadjutor brothers advisory board. He was elected many times to provincial chapters.
At Salesian he was highly respected
and highly successful as basketball coach, amassing 353 wins, 13 league titles,
and a state championship in 1976. According
to a Don Bosco Prep student, Matt Stranzl, who looked deeply into Bro. Jim’s
career, “his teams played with tremendous discipline and selflessness; they
were a reflection of their coach’s personality off the court.”
Bro. Jim addressing his players in a 1976 game in Salesian's notorious 1927 gym |
Four of Bro. Jim’s players became 1,000-point scorers in college. Luis Brignone, ’71, played for the Puerto Rican Olympic team in 1976 and was the first alumnus inducted into the school’s athletic hall of fame. In 2008 Bro. Jim became the school’s second hall of fame inductee. Another player, Mike Breen, ’79, became a highly regarded sportscaster and was elected to the National Basketball Hall of Fame in 2021.
When Bro. Jim joined Salesian’s
hall of fame, the provincial, Fr. Jim Heuser, congratulated him as a “wholesome
and friendly presence” among the young, offering “steady and helpful
instruction” and “warm and positive encouragement.” He said, “You teach the young lessons, not
only for a game, but also for life.”
A few of Bro. Jim's old players returned in 2008 for his induction into Salesian's hall of fame (photo by Louis Calvelli) |
The school’s new gymnasium (2010) is named for him.
He also became a pretty good
tennis player and late in his career coached that sport too.
Bro. Jim was assigned to
Archbishop Shaw High School in Marrero, La., in 1980. There he was athletic director and an administrative
assistant. Without reliable public
transportation on the West Bank, he had to learn to drive. For 8 years he was also the Salesian
community’s treasurer.
In the summer of 1984 Bro. Jim
was posted to Birmingham, Ala., to run a basketball program for the impoverished
youngsters at Mark’s Village, adjacent to the Salesians’ Holy Rosary Church. Although this was quite a change for him, he
served with enthusiasm, keeping the court in good condition, keeping games peaceable,
coaching a bit, and always ready with guidance (including for the present
writer, his assistant that summer).
Another change came in 2000, a
two-year posting to the Salesian Boys & Girls Club in East Boston as a youth
minister and game room assistant. He
also managed to do a little coaching at Savio Prep.
2002 brought him to his last
Salesian community, Don Bosco Prep in Ramsey, where he assisted with some
coaching (basketball and tennis), was assistant athletic director, moderated
the cafeteria, and was known to many of the students “as a kind sage who greets
[them] in the morning as they walk between classes.” Matt Stranzl, himself a basketball player,
described Bro. Jim a “a living legend amongst all the basketball players in the
program. Known affectionately by many as
‘The Shot Doctor,’ he can be found anywhere in the gym helping all players,
ranging from wide-eyed freshmen to well-established senior starters.” One of the Bosco coaches alleged that Bro.
Jim knew more about shooting a basketball than a lot of NBA coaches.
Bro. Jim reading at Province Day Mass in 2008 Our Lady of the Valley, Orange, N.J. |
Weakened health obliged Bro. Jim to enter assisted living in Allendale in January 2020. He returned to the Prep whenever he could for celebrations or short visits and happily celebrated his 90th birthday there with a big party in the cafeteria.
Bro. Jim never let his physical limitations diminish his zeal, interest, or connection to the Salesian mission at Don Bosco Prep. He was a regular presence at the home basketball games, appearing courtside with his walker, cheering on the Ironmen and offering shooting tips at every turn. Every year, he prepared his “proper shooting technique” packet for every member of the varsity basketball team. In the spring, he would request the roster of the varsity baseball team and write a personalized note to each player. He read the local sports page cover-to-cover and kept up on all of Don Bosco Prep's teams, always offering encouragement and suggestions for how they could “come out on top” and win it all. While his declining health caused him to be physically absent from the campus, his heart, mind, and prayers were ever-present.
When Bro. Jim celebrated his
50th anniversary of profession, he wrote that
“the brother’s vocation allows presence [among the young] in a variety of
ways.” He especially liked the “Salesian concept in education—bring reason,
religion and kindness” and assisting young people “with a smile.” The “Salesian
model of interior life—work is prayer” was a great gift to him, he said, and he
was to live his life as a gift of God with joy each day. He concluded, “Some
great men have helped me over these 60 years—and I am very grateful.”
Bro.
Jim made an impact on a spread of Salesians in their practical training at
Salesian, including several who eventually left the Society. One, Bob Breault, in 1961-1962 found in him
a man who exemplified the image of an American Don Bosco. I
served my first year of tirocinium at Salesian High in New Rochelle, and Jim
allowed me to coach the freshman basketball team there. I remember his insistence on shooting skills,
but especially his ability to marry athletics with religion. It seemed to say that what goes for playing
well goes for living well. The world
became a bit better for Jim’s life. May
we all live as Jim did.
Jack
Hudak came to Salesian for practical training almost a decade later and found a
great coach in Bro. Jim:
When I was at Salesian HS New Rochelle, I was the athletic director
during the 1971-72 school year. That
year Bro. Jim with Lou Brignone, an outstanding player, along with other very
good players won the Thruway League championship. Since there were no other takers for the AD
position, I volunteered or was asked to serve as AD. With Bro. Jim’s invaluable support, all the
games through all sports went on without a hitch.
Bro. Jim was not only an outstanding coach but, more
important, he was concerned about the well-being of the student athletes and of
all students. Athletics and PE was a
means for Bro. Jim to carry on the work of Don Bosco through religion, reason,
and kindness. I highly valued his
friendship during my stay and after Salesian HS.
Robert
Ferrara came to Salesian still later and kept up a friendship with Bro. Jim. He was one of Brother’s visitors at the Allendale
assisted living. He writes:
Bro. Jim was a “good and faithful
servant,” a great Salesian, and a phenomenal basketball coach! He
personified dedication and meticulous detail to Don Bosco's Preventive System
of reason, religion, and kindness as being his educative mantra. During
our visits he would eventually refer back to these ideals no matter what we
were talking about. They lived in his soul! I’m very glad that I caught up and had
meaningful time with him. He thanked me
for the visits. I thank him for his
life!
Bro.
Jim is survived by his sister, Sister Martha Wiegand, O.P., of Muskego, Wisc. They visited each other often in their later
years, and whenever they spoke by phone, they included prayer.
Bro. Jim's wake was celebrated at the Marian Shrine on the afternoon of Friday, Dec. 13, followed at 7:00 p.m. by the funeral Mass. Fr. Dominic Tran, provincial, presided, and Fr. Pat Angelucci delivered a eulogy. He was laid to rest in the Salesian Cemetery at Goshen, N.Y., on Dec. 14.
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