Tuesday, September 15, 2026

Homily for Memorial of Our Lady of Sorrows

Homily for the Memorial of
Our Lady of Sorrows

Sept. 15, 2026
Collect
Heb 5: 7-9
John 19: 25-27
Christian Brothers, St. Joseph’s Residence, N.R.

The Virgin of Seven Sorrows
(Absolon Stumme)

When Christ our Lord “was lifted high on the cross … his mother [stood] close by and shared his suffering.”  We pray that our sorrows and sufferings may participate in the Lord’s passion alongside her, and thus we “share in his resurrection” (Collect).

According to the Letter to the Hebrews, Christ wished ardently—“with loud cries and tears”—to be spared from his passion.  But Hebrews affirms that he was “saved from death” because of his reverence and his obedience to his Father (5:7-8).

Being “saved from death” refers to his resurrection.  Passing from bodily death into eternal life, “he was made perfect” (5:9); his human nature was perfected, defeating death.  His perfected humanity “became the source of eternal salvation for all who obey him” (5:9).

“All” includes his mother, who first appears in the Gospels as a model of obedient discipleship (Luke 1:26-38) and perfects her obedience by accompanying him to Calvary.  There she stands close by and suffers with him as only a mother can (Collect).

When we hear Jesus entrust his bereaved mother to the beloved disciple, we find it tender that, as he’s dying, he sees to her care, entrusting her to his most cherished follower.  St. Bernard has a different take, finding this entrustment another source of pain for her.  He addresses her in a sermon:

        Were not those words: Woman, behold your Son, not more than a sword to you, truly piercing your heart, cutting through to the division between soul and spirit? What an exchange! John is given to you in place of Jesus, the servant in place of the Lord, the disciple in place of the master; the son of Zebedee replaces the Son of God, a mere man replaces God himself. How could these words not pierce your most loving heart, when the mere remembrance of them breaks ours, hearts of stone and iron though they are![1]

Mary & St. John's Journey to Ephesus
(German Hernandez Amores)

But how fortunate for us that we, also Christ’s beloved disciples, have been given his mother, a mother who knows our sufferings as intimately as she knew his and is prepared to stand with us, to lend us courage and patience that we may join our sorrows and pain to hers and to his, and to guide us thru her Son’s passion toward his resurrection—a resurrection she already shares because of her lifelong and complete reverence and obedience.



[1] Sermo in dom. infra oct. Assumptionis, 14-15 (LOH 4:1402).

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