Thursday, September 23, 2021

Fr. Anthony D'Angelo, SDB (1923-2021)

Fr. Anthony D’Angelo, SDB (1923-2021)


Fr. Anthony S. D’Angelo, SDB, died on September 22, at James A. Haley Veteran’s Hospital in Tampa. At 98 years of age, he was the 2d-oldest Salesian in the province.

Fr. Tony was a member of the Tampa Salesian community, residing at St. Philip the Apostle Residence since 2018. He was a professed Salesian for 64 years and a priest for 54 years.

Tony was born to Mariano and Catherine Cannistra D’Angelo on July 17, 1923, in New York City; on his birth certificate, he’s Antonino. But he was baptized Antonio Santo D’Angelo in October at Our Lady of the Rosary Church in Coatesville, Pa. At age ten he was confirmed at our parish of Mary Help of Christians in Manhattan.

Tony attended a Manhattan trade school and learned to be a butcher. He got some jobs in grocery store meat departments before he was drafted into the Army in 1942.

Tony served in the U.S. Army during World War II, mostly in the European Theater, according to his brother Sal. He progressed with the Allied advance from England through France, Belgium, and Luxembourg, doing supply services (hauling food, gas, and ammunition to the front) and, Sal thinks, also guarding German POWs (maybe on return trips). When Germany surrendered, he was transferred to the Philippines, apparently to prepare for the invasion of Japan that didn’t happen. He returned to the U.S. and was discharged in 1946.

In his senior years Fr. Tony was brought to Washington on “Honor Flights,” a veterans program in tribute to their WWII service—once from Birmingham and once from New Rochelle.  He enjoyed these greatly.

From Sal D’Angelo we learn that on returning home, Tony went back to the butcher’s trade in a store his mother had opened.  He enjoyed taking his kid brother (18 years his junior) to Yankee games and other sporting events.  After some years, he found a job at the Post Office. When he began to think about becoming a priest, he went to consult the Salesian pastor at Mary Help of Christians on East 12th Street.  That would have been Fr. Anthony Bregolato.  According to Sal, the priest told Tony that since he worked well with kids, he should become a Salesian.  So Tony applied to the Sons of Mary program at Don Bosco Seminary in Newton, N.J.

Tony entered the seminary in January 1955.  In September 1956 he began novitiate in Newton and made his first profession on September 8, 1957. The 1957 elenco lists 39 novices (the year probably began with more), including the future Bros. John Andres, Charles Bryson, Jerome Cincotta, George Marquis, Anthony Matse, William Regner, Joseph Reza, and Joseph Tortorici and Frs. Leo Baysinger, Paul Bedard, Gerard Bonjean, Bernard Dabbene, James Naughton, and Charles Ruloph. It was quite a class!

Bro. Tony graduated from Don Bosco College with a B.A. in philosophy in 1960 and was dispatched to Mary Help of Christians School in Tampa for practical training (1960-1963), where all but one or two of the ca. 140 boys were boarders. Bro. Tony taught grades 5-8; there were also 9th graders, including your humble blogger (1962-1963), but he didn’t teach us. In addition, like the other “clerics,” he assisted in the dining room and the 120-bed dormitory and at recreation and daily chores. He also was on the summer camp staff.

Bro. Tony studied theology at Bollengo, near Ivrea, Italy, from 1963 to 1967 and was ordained in Ivrea on March 18, 1967.

As a priest, Fr. Tony served six years as guidance counselor at Salesian High School in New Rochelle, N.Y. (1973-1979), and in fact was licensed as a school psychologist in New York. He earned an M.A. in pastoral counseling at Iona College, New Rochelle, in 1971, followed by a doctorate from Fordham University in 1976.

But most of Fr. Tony’s priestly ministry was in parishes: as assistant pastor at Holy Rosary in Port Chester, N.Y. (1967-1971), Mary Help of Christians in Manhattan (1971-1973, 1983-1996), St. Ann in Manhattan (1981-1983), and Holy Rosary in Birmingham, Ala. (1997-2014). He was pastor of St. Thomas the Apostle Parish in Harlem, N.Y., from 1979 to 1981. He was a hospital chaplain in Manhattan for 13 years (1983-1996); according to his brother Sal, that was mainly at Cabrini and Beth Israel hospitals. He served at Sacred Heart Retreat Center in Ipswich, Mass., for one year (1996-1997).

Hospital chaplain: from the Salesian Communications archives

While he was assigned to Port Chester, he was appointed to the regional board of directors of the Port Chester Citizens Anti-Poverty Association, being cited as “well liked in our community and relating well to all people.”

In Birmingham Fr. Tony was noted as a “fiery priest from New York” who supported civil rights. He was, of course, only continuing what he’d been doing for years in New York City. He was active in the pro-life movement, as well. He wrote frequent guest columns for One Voice, Birmingham’s diocesan newspaper, usually on prayer or concern for the needy. On at least one occasion (August 26, 2007) he wrote a long opinion piece for the Birmingham News protesting the poverty in and official neglect of Mark’s Village, a “project” adjacent to Holy Rosary Church.

Before he moved South, he wrote occasional letters to the editor of Catholic New York, e.g., on June 8, 1995, protesting that boxing is immoral and the following week encouraging prayer.

Privately, he wrote letters of prayerful support for the rector major, Fr. Juan Vecchi, when he was suffering from cancer in 2000 and 2002, to which Fr. Pascual Chavez, still regional councilor, responded, also with appreciation for the pastoral work going on in Birmingham. In 2005 Fr. Chavez, by then rector major, thanked Fr. Tony for condolences after his father’s death.

Approaching his 50th anniversary of profession and 40th of ordination in 2007, once again he expressed his commitment to prayer. He also displayed some of his typical humor: when people suggested he consider retiring, he wrote, “I retire every night, and with the grace of the Lord come out of retirement every morning at 5:30….”

At age 91 Fr. Tony finally retired to the provincial house in New Rochelle in 2014. As his health weakened, he transferred to the assisted living home in Tampa in 2018.

During a Christmas party at the St. Philip Residence
(courtesy of Carolyn Espinosa)

Fr. Bill Keane, his director in New Rochelle, pays this tribute to Fr. Tony: “I certainly admired his perseverance and his friendliness with people. I also remember his coyly getting out his opinion on some matters. When I left the provincial house, he did not appreciate a couple of decisions [I had made], but when I visited Tampa a couple of years ago, he forgot about those and was friendly. His conversations and his experiences were very interesting when he spoke about them.”

Fr. Tony is survived by his younger brother Sal (wife Joyce) of New Jersey and 13 nieces and nephews. He was predeceased by his sisters Mary and Josie.

Fr. Tony as a hospital chaplain, possibly in the 1980s, from the Communications Office files.

FUNERAL ARRANGEMENTS

Mary Help of Christians Church

6400 East Chelsea Street

Tampa, Florida 33610

Visitation: Wednesday, September 29, 5:30 – 8:00 p.m.

Mass:     Thursday, September 30, 10:00 a.m.

Marian Shrine Chapel

174 Filors Lane

Stony Point, New York 10980

Visitation:  Friday, October 1, 2:00 p.m.

Mass:    Friday, October 1, 7:00 p.m.

Salesian Cemetery

3 Craigville Road 10924

Goshen, New York

Burial: Saturday, October 2, 10:30 a.m.

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