Homily for the
17th Sunday of Ordinary
Time
July 30, 2023
1 Kgs 3: 5, 7-12
Our Lady of the Assumption,
Bronx
St. Francis Xavier,
Bronx
You’ve probably heard about the guy who
prayed constantly to win the Megamillions lottery. Finally, God got tired of hearing him and, in
exasperation, spoke to him. “I’m glad
you turn to me for help,” he said. “But
could you at least buy a ticket?”
How many of you have played the lottery, if
not regularly, at least occasionally? Or
how many of you have gone to Atlantic City or Mohegan Sun to gamble a
little? Did you ever pray to win?
If you did, your prayer stands in contrast to the prayer of young King Solomon. When God said to him, “Ask something of me, and I’ll give it to you” (1 Kgs 3:5), the king begged, “Give your servant an understanding heart to judge your people and to distinguish right from wrong” (3:9). Solomon prayed for wisdom that would enable him to carry out the responsibilities of his vocation.
It’s not wrong to pray for material
success: to win the lottery, to pass an
exam, to succeed in business or in a relationship, for good weather. It’s not wrong to pray for some form of
happiness, e.g., for good health for ourselves or others (which we do in our
intercessions at Mass) or for safe travel.
But God was pleased with Solomon’s prayer
because he asked for nothing like that; not for long life, wealth, or victory
in war; rather, “for understanding so that you may know what is right”
(3:11). And God granted him an abundance
of wisdom, so much that Solomon’s name ever since has been linked with that
virtue, the virtue of wisdom.
Solomon’s prayer began with humility. He acknowledged himself as the Lord’s
“servant” (3:9). Whenever we pray, we do
well to imitate that example, to acknowledge our lowliness before God or the
saints, as the case may be or to confess their greatness and goodness. When we greet Mary, as we often do, we call
her “full of grace.” When we pray what
Jesus taught us, we hallow or bless his Father’s name.
Solomon prayed for what he needed to fulfill
his vocation, which was to rule over Israel, God’s chosen people. Besides praising God, always an excellent
prayer, as we see in so many of the psalms—e.g., today we maintain that God’s
law is “more precious than thousands of gold or silver pieces” and “your law is
my delight” (119:72,77)—besides that, we ought to pray for the graces we need
to be faithful Christians. Baptism and
our relationship with the Holy Trinity is our most fundamental vocation.
Then we have our particular vocations as
spouses or parents, or in my case as priest and consecrated religious; or, for
the time being, the vocation of being a youth, a student; or you might be a senior
citizen, perhaps a widowed person; or one who cares for others thru some
profession; or a working person or an employer; and so on. What graces, what gifts, do I need to serve
God, family, and others where I am and amid the people around me? Thus Solomon prayed that he’d be a good
ruler.
The other part of his prayer was that he’d be
able to “distinguish right from wrong” (3:9), which God explicitly recognized: “that you may know what is right”
(3:11). No matter who we are or what our
place in life is, we all need that kind of discernment. All of us have to make moral choices within
our families, our work, our leisure, our use of resources. How can we best care for our health? how be a fair and honest worker or employer
or a diligent student? how discipline
our children? how much to give to the
poor, to my parish, or to some worthy cause?
what to watch on TV or how much time to spend online? what’s a safe highway speed on this road at
this time? am I doing anything to care
for God’s creation? how can I be a
kinder, more patient person? do I show
respect for everyone I meet and speak respectfully of others, even those who
aren’t present? how can I better
practice chastity either in marriage or as a single?
Every one of us needs an abundance of wisdom
and understanding in our daily lives.
God wants to give it to us, as he did to Solomon. He’s pleased when we ask him to help us make
good choices and live faithfully.