Fr.
Francis T. Kelly, SDB (1939-2025)
Fr.
Francis “Frank” Kelly, SDB, passed into eternity on the morning of Dec. 11,
2025, in a hospital in Etobicoke, Ont. He had moved into a nursing home near the
Salesian community at St. Benedict Parish in Etobicoke, Ont., about 2 years ago in
view of his declining health but had continued his priestly ministry among the
residents as long as he was able. He was 86 years old and had been a professed
Salesian of Don Bosco for 66 years, a priest for more than 54 years.
Francis
Thomas Kelly was a native of the Bay Ridge section of Brooklyn, where he was
born on June 7, 1939, to John and Gertrude (Coyne) Kelly. Frank had four siblings: Theresa, Jack, Ed, and Jerry. His brothers predeceased him.
Within
a month of birth, Frank was baptized at St. Patrick’s Church in Bay Ridge (Brooklyn),
and at age 10 he was also confirmed there.
In
September 1954, Frank entered Don Bosco Juniorate in Haverstraw, N.Y. He
graduated there in June 1958. Although he had struggled with Latin in high
school, he entered St. Joseph’s Novitiate in Newton, N.J., as a clerical novice
on Sept. 7, 1958, and professed as a Salesian on Sept. 8, 1959. The master of
novices was Fr. Aloysius Bianchi, and the 44 novices (as of Jan. 1, 1959)
included the future Frs. Joseph Davie, Jack Gibson, Gerard Pellegrino, David
Purdy, Jeremiah Reen, Floyd Rotunno, and Francis Twardzik and Bros. Joseph
Ferrari, James Gleason, Richard Pasaik, and Gerald Warner.
Bro.
Frank completed a year of study at Don Bosco College in Newton in 1959-1960,
still having difficulty with Latin. In 1960 he was assigned to Don Bosco Prep
in Ramsey to begin practical training. The following year he returned to Newton
for 1961-1962 to resume studies but still could not handle Latin. He became a
coadjutor brother and in 1962 went to Hope Haven in Marrero, La., to continue
practical training; he served there for 3 years.
Bro.
Frank’s years in Marrero factored into one summer camp experience at Camp Don Bosco
in Newton. Former Salesian John Gushue shared a summer with him there in the
mid-60s. “During a campfire,” he recounts, “a group of campers began singing
the then-popular song ‘The House of the Rising Sun.’ Frank knew the song was
about a New Orleans house of ill repute and as emcee thought the song was
inappropriate for the campers. He stopped the singing mid-verse and rapidly
moved to the next song. He had forgotten to ask the singers what they intended
to sing for talent night. Frank was very smooth, savvy, and saintly as a
campfire emcee.”
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Bro. Kelly (right) hamming it up at summer camp in Cedar Lake, Ind., in 1968 with Bros. Tom Higgs, Charlie Bryson, and Dave Verrett |
After
making his perpetual profession in Newton on August 16, 1965, Bro. Frank
returned to Don Bosco College as a coadjutor to continue studies. He concluded
his coursework in June 1967 and was granted a “seminary diploma” instead of a
B.A. Nevertheless, in the fall he began studies toward ordination as part of
the first Salesian community at the Pontifical College Josephinum in
Worthington, Ohio. He remained officially a coadjutor for the first 2 years but
as he began his 3rd year in 1969, he became again a “cleric.” At that point, facility
in Latin was no longer required for a priestly vocation. At the same time, he arranged
with the PCJ and Fordham University to complete coursework toward a Master of
Religious Education.
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| Fr. Frank's ordination portrait |
On
April 3, 1971, he was ordained in Columbus and became Fr. Frank Kelly. Pastoral
assignments followed: teacher and director of religious activities (DRA) at
Salesian High School, New Rochelle, N.Y. (1971-1974), DRA at Don Bosco Prep,
Ramsey (1974-1976), assistant pastor at St. Anthony Parish, Elizabeth, N.J.
(1976-1980), retreat preacher at Don Bosco Retreat Center, Haverstraw (1980-1984),
director at Salesian Junior Seminary, Goshen (1984-1986). The highlight of his
year and a half in Goshen was a visit from Mother Teresa, which profoundly
affected him.
With
the seminary’s closure at the end of 1985, Fr. Frank in 1986 became part of the
contingent of American expatriates founding the Salesian work in the Toronto
area. From 1986 to 1992, he was director of the community and DRA at Don Bosco
Secondary School in Weston, Ont. An example of the impact he had comes from a
DBSS alumnus, Frank Capadoccia: “Fr. Kelly was special in every possible way. His
massive grin and perennial laugh made Don Bosco a special place for me and
countless other lost high schoolers trying to find our way. I was lucky enough
to be part of a retreat led by Fr. K and Fr. Dave Sajdak, which quite literally
changed my life. It’s where I learned that I could proudly be a Catholic. It’s
where I met my wife Paula, and it’s where my entire view about who I was and
what I could become changed. And now, looking back, 60+ retreats that I’ve
personally led, how many incredible journeys adjusted toward the light of
better days ... all because of our amazingly special Fr. K!”
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| Fr. Frank with seminary students and staff, 1984 |
After
a sabbatical at the Institute of Salesian Studies in Berkeley, Calif., Fr.
Frank was appointed assistant pastor at St. Benedict’s Parish in Etobicoke,
Ont. (1993-1995), then director of the Salesian community (1995-2001) and
pastor (1995-2007). From 2000 to 2006 he also served as vice provincial of the
Canadian vice province.
Fr.
Frank took another sabbatical year in 2007-2008 at Salesian High School in New
Rochelle. He returned to Etobicoke in 2008, ministering as a spiritual director
for the Salesian Family, parishioners, and many others for the remainder of his
life. His impact was profound; many were convinced that he had a gift for
reading hearts.
Fr.
Frank’s gifts also included humor and an artistic side. Former Salesian Spencer
Boudreau recalls: “Frank was a great guy with a wonderful sense of humour. On
feast days in Newton he would decorate the dining room. He took great pride in
doing so and always did an incredible job with limited resources.”
Salesian Cooperator Lynn
Krakaur, sister of the late Fr. Dennis Donovan, has similar memories,
particularly of Christmas 1984 celebrated in Goshen with the confreres and
their families (including your humble blogger and his parents): “Fr. Frank
loved Christmas! He had a robust laugh that was so joyful! One of our fondest
memories was spending Christmas Eve at the residence in Goshen, with Fr. Frank!
Our family talked about that celebration for years! I pray that they are all
together (my mom, dad, Dennis, et al.) celebrating Christmas, with Fr. Frank
leading a sing-along!”
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Fr. Frank in Santa disguise, celebrating Christmas at Goshen in 1984
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From Elizabeth, N.J., Deacon
Joseph Caporaso, a Cooperator, also remembers Fr. Frank’s joy and artistry, as
well as his pastoral heart: “I was saddened to hear of Fr. Kelly’s passing. Fr.
Kelly came to St. Anthony’s in Elizabeth with so much joy, and a very
contagious laugh. He was so involved in all aspects of parish life and brought
his gifts of creativity and deep spirituality to many in the parish. None of us
will ever forget the magnificent Easter display erected behind the main altar
of Christ rising from the tomb on Easter Sunday. His ability to touch so many
of us with his charismatic personality and his warm, caring heart is without a
doubt one of his many attributes. When he left for another assignment, we were
all sad to see him go and often spoke about him for many years after.”
Bro. Bernie Dubé lived with
Fr. Frank for nine years in Etobicoke and notes many facets of his priestly
ministry: “I really met and lived with him when I was assigned to St.
Benedict’s Parish in 1988…. He was always very hospitable, loving, and caring.
He was an excellent preacher, healer, confessor, holy priest, and above
all a wonderful Salesian. He was a prayerful man and a friend. He was my
director for nine years, while he was pastor at St. Benedict’s. He was always
very supportive to me.”
Antoniette Pace, a lifelong
St. Benedict parishioner, pays similar tribute to Fr. Frank: “Fr. Kelly often
said that the Scriptures are alive in the world, in the day-to-day stuff of
life. How true these words ring as we consider the gospel readings at daily
Mass on the days surrounding his death. On Dec. 10, the gospel
proclaimed, “Come to me, all you that are weary and are carrying heavy
burdens, and I will give you rest,” an often-quoted passage by Fr. Kelly. God
only knows how burdened Fr. Kelly must have been in the events that led to the
emergency room at the hospital and during the long hours that night and into
the morning of Dec. 11. On Dec. 12, the feast of Our Lady of Guadalupe, a
Marian feast very dear to Fr. Kelly’s heart, the gospel proclaimed, “My soul
magnifies the Lord, and my spirit rejoices in God my Saviour.” Fr. Kelly’s
life and death remind us that when we surrender our lives to the will of God,
letting go of our powerlessness in the face of wearisome and heavy burdens, we
become free, like Mary, in the power of the Holy Spirit, to rejoice and magnify
the Lord. Thank you, Fr. Kelly for teaching us how to proclaim God with our
lives!”
Fr.
Kelly is survived by his sister Theresa Kelly.
FUNERAL ARRANGEMENTS
Wake
at St. Benedict Parish, 2194 Kipling Avenue, Etobicoke, Ontario
Thursday,
December 18, 2025
- 3:30 p.m. – Reception
of the Body
- 6:30 p.m.
– Evening Prayer
Funeral
Mass
Friday,
December 19, 2025, at 10:00 a.m.
Reception in the church hall following the Mass
The
body will be brought to Montreal after the Mass.
Saturday,
December 20, 2025
- 8:00 a.m. – Mass for
Salesian Family members only
Don Bosco Youth Centre, Montreal
- 10:00 a.m. – Burial
St. Francis of Assisi Catholic Cemetery